This past weekend hubs and I celebrated our 17th wedding anniversary. Seventeen years?! It’s been a good ride, and I’ve learned a ton along the way about how to love my husband even though we are so very different.
But, one thing we have in common is our love for good food. Cooking and eating together was a big part of our dating years — and we haven’t stopped yet. Cooking and eating, that is.
We’ve shared wonderful meals and tried lots of new things. We traveled France together twice and tasted some of the best and worst meals of our lives. We’ve eaten extravagantly at almost $500/month for just the two of us. And we’ve eaten frugally, at one point spending $400/month to feed a family of seven. Richer and poorer, in sickness and in health. That’s us.
The way to a man’s heart….
I have never met a man who didn’t appreciate good food and drink. So, it makes sense that as Father’s Day approaches, to consider some good eats and drinks for the fathers in your life.
I propose a veritable cornucopia of foodie-inspired gifts! Not only do these gifts support one of our most basic human needs (eating), but they also show love and respect if they fit the man they’re destined for. If the father you’re thinking of is like the ones I know, he will definitely appreciate these gifts.
A Great Cookbook
Alton Brown’s I’m Just Here for the Food: Version 2.0 is a great asset for anyone who wants to improve his cooking chops. AB is humorous, yet informative. And he knows all about “man food.” The guys at my house love to watch his show.
A Favorite Dinner
If my husband is hungry, crabbiness most likely follows. And thankful, the reverse effect also occurs. When well-fed, he’s in a good humor. Preparing his favorite meal, like Poblano Chile Enchiladas, takes the evening over the top. Make your dad or husband his favorite food to best love on him.
A Fun Grill Gadget
Yes, really. I gave this talking grill thermometer to Hubs about 3 years ago and it has been well worth every penny. He doesn’t need to stand guard over the grill, but neither do we need to eat burnt meat. The thermometer’s voice nags him to go get it off the grill, so I don’t have to!
A Ginormous Coffee Mug
We love these Peets mugs at our house. They are big and bold and emblazoned with witty sayings. No dainty tea cup for my guy! If your man starts the day with a big cup of joe, he’ll definitely appreciate one of these bad boys.
Thoughtful Meal Planning
Dare I say it? Don’t fix food you know he doesn’t like. There’s nothing worse than having to suffer through a meal that you don’t care for. And if the cook knows in advance that you don’t like it and could have served something different, well, that’s just not love and respect.
And sometimes when you enjoy different foods, thoughtful meal planning takes a little sacrifice. I prefer steak; my husband prefers fish. Fish – that is his dream dinner. So, as Father’s Day approaches, I will plan accordingly.
But, all throughout the year, I can love and respect him by not purposely serving foods I know he doesn’t care for.
What food gifts would that father in your life appreciate?
Over the next five weeks, I’m collaborating with a great group of bloggers to share ideas on how to “honor the man they call daddy.” Whether it’s your own husband, your dad, your brother, or another special man in your life who is a father, these ideas will be thought-provoking and encouraging.
Today, we’re sharing gift ideas that show love and respect.
Be sure to hop around and be inspired:
JessieLeigh says
These are fantastic suggestions, Jessica! “Thoughtful Meal Planning” should be such a no-brainer, but I definitely needed the reminder. 🙂 My dad got a cool grill gadget one year… it has a remote temperature gauge that you can take with you so you can monitor it from afar. He loves that thing. 😉
Tara @ Feels Like Home says
Great ideas! I’m all about the gadgets and gifts, but our finances at the moment necessitate gestures. 🙂 It never occurred to me to plan foods he likes more often. UGH.
robbie @ going green mama says
Great timing! I have struggled this year with ideas for my husband, particularly since we’ve had some forseen and unforseen expenses…We knew this month would be expensive.
I think I’ve settled on splurging on some great steaks at the farmers market for him!
Marcie says
My husband just started a diet to lose a few pounds. So when my kids asked him what he wanted for Father’s Day he said all he wanted this year was his trim & fit body back from a few years ago.
I found what’s called a TorsoTee and ordered him one for the kids to give him. It’s a t-shirt with a photographic image of a mans fit chest and abs on front. I know he’s going to get a kick out of it and he’ll be getting his wish come true.
Now back to what I was on this site for….lo-cal meals for his Father’s Day dinner!